It is pretty scary that so much of your information is just on the internet for other people to access. It is wrong to make people give you their password, but I do not think the shoulder surfing is as bad. If a potential employer says "Hey, can we see your Facebook?" you should be prepared for that sort of thing. Don't post pictures or statuses that you wouldn't want someone you are working for to see. They are just trying to get to know more about you.
Also, I am definitely going to set a Google Alert on my name. That sounds like a really good way to find out if information about you is out there.
